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| Union High School South doors leading to the gym. |
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| Shirleen |
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| Nila Wooley |
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| Adella Barney |
Freshman year passed quickly with the following year bringing the rest of our friends to Union. Remember we went through LaPoint School with two grades in a classroom.
In January of that year Raymond and I had our first lesson in responsibility. Shiree was born as a stillborn, and as usual Mother was very ill in the hospital for several days. Dad had his job responsibilities plus he was spending as much time as possible at the hospital with Mother. The chores fell totally on the shoulder's of Raymond and I. Uncle Clyde Walquist (my dad's sister's husband) loaned us his truck. The reality was I had VERY little driving experience, and certainly no driver's license. I taught myself to drive. I'm still surprised I didn't ruin the gears, transmission or wreck Uncle Clyde's truck. It made bunny hops until I learned to shift correctly, and become a little more proficient.
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| Irene |
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| Carol |
Carol Rasmussen was a cousin, friend, and was probably meant to be my sister in the pre-mortal world, we just got sent to separate households. We started making mudpies together and became life long friends. Many of my sweet memories surround her. We had many honey candy pulls, sing-a-rees, homemade ice cream parties, weenie roasts and night games. When we could smell the wonderful aroma of homemade bread baking coming from Aunt Mamie's kitchen, we'd head to Carol's for hot bread, homemade butter and honey. Country kids were very creative at finding something to do. Aunt Mamie kept a pretty tight watch on Carol, so she missed some of our watermelon busts, chick-a-rees, and nonsense fun.
Another pleasant memory happened during harvest time. Carol and I were assigned to help Aunt Mamie (Carol's mother) pick peas for canning. The garden was across the road from her home. The vegetable rows were long. The job looked huge, so we sat facing each other so we could gab. We had three or four rows to pick. No small task for a fairly warm to hot day. Suddenly, Grandma Norton (Aunt Mamie's mother) opened the door and came out on the porch. She said, "If you girls don't stop eating those GREEN peas, they are going to make you DEATHLY sick. Besides, there won't be enough left to can." We looked up the row, sure enough the stark evidence was there. The empty pods had condemned us! Carol broke the silence and said, "Just what color does Grandma Norton think peas are, RED? She is the one that has been trying to die for years!" That last statement was so true. Grandma was constantly saying something about herself dying. For instance, "I was so sick, I thought I was going to die." Grandma was partially correct. Carol and I nearly did die several times in our life...from laughing, not from eating green peas.
Aunt Mamie raised chickens and sold eggs for an income. Her chicken coop was exceptionally large. It could house approximately 200-250 chickens. She would occasionally sell all of the chickens and start a new crop of chickens. It was at this time, that Carol, Doug (Carol's brother), Raymond, and I decided to play a game of baseball in Aunt Mamie's empty chicken coop. The chickens had just been sold and the coop had been mostly cleaned out but had not been washed with lye. We felt so clever coming up with a bright idea of taking advantage of the empty coop! We wouldn't have to chase the ball very far, because the ball would hit the walls and bounce back, right? We each had to crawl over or under the roosts several times to retrieve the ball. Suddenly we all begin to itch all over. After a quick examination of ourselves, we could see chicken lice crawling all over us. We took off for our homes at top speed, covered in chicken lice. Our mothers knew the right remedy which was an outdoor lye bath. It was miserable and we didn't get in the house until every last ugly little thing was gone.
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| Raymond |
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| Charlotte |
"I am a part of all I have met."
-Alfred Lord Tennyson
I might add and all that I would meet.
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| Homer Cook |
We had gone to Uintah Stake L.D.S. Conference in Vernal. At the end of the meeting, they announced that Uintah High Baccalaureate would be held afterward and asked that everyone clear the building as soon as possible. Dad drove downtown to go to the auto part store on main street. As we waited in the car for his return, two boys parked across the street. They got out of their car and went in a store. They were in a '56 plum and white Chev with chrome pipes on the side. I watched them with a catty thought running through my mind, "Those Seniors think they are so hot!" They soon returned to their car, and drove on down the street. I listened to the soft roar of their car until it could be heard no more. When Dale reminisces about this car that he loved, he says the pipes were not loud they were mel-l-o-w. I reply, "Okay!" That was the first time I saw Dale and wouldn't meet him for at least six more years. This day is still clear in my mind. As I look back to this experience, I have learned that the veil can be made thin and we can receive impressions of those who we knew and made promises with before we came to earth.
The July before my junior year, Mother had another stillborn. Dad brought Glenn's body home in a shoe box, and put it in the refrigerator. Mother was very ill and remained in the hospital for quite a few days. Dad was quite concerned about her. Seeing he wasn't going to find time to bury the baby, he finally sent Raymond to do it. It was a good mile or more to the cemetery and he did not have his license to drive. Raymond taking a shovel and the shoe box and walked to the cemetery. He said he could feel a presence walking with him. He was not alone. After he buried Glenn by Val Dee and Shiree, he dedicated the spot the best he knew how and walked home alone.
In November, (1956) Carol and I got our patriarchal blessings. Mother and Aunt Mamie went with us. On the way home, Aunt Mamie commented that it sounded to her that Carol would marry before I would. Mother said she had gotten the same feeling, and Carol agreed. I remember thinking, how could that be? Carol hadn't started to date and I was going steady. I thought Homer would be in my life forever.
I feel much gratitude even today to Homer Cook for making my High School
years memorable. We attended all the special dances together. He was a good dancer, a gentleman, handsome, and there wasn't many weekends that I didn't have a date. We both loved to dance. The jitter-bug was popular. It was the age of Elvis Prestley, Doris Day, Jane Fonda, Johannie Cash, Patty Page etc. In my estimation the best of all times.
Since my siblings and I walked home from mutual, our parents gave us a curfew. We liked to stand or sit in the middle of the road and just talk before Carol, and Doug begin their walk a half block south. Raymond, Jeanne and I went east a block. Adella and Deanna (Adella's sister) had another block east before we were all home. The group we walked home with varied from time to time. We occasionally would go beyond curfew. One such night, after constantly being late, Adella, Deanna and I leisurely meandered toward home under a full moon. The path by the creek on a darker night was always a little eerie, so we'd silently listen to the strange sounds with much caution. We crossed the narrow foot bridge single file. I was in the lead, Adella close behind me, and Deanna behind her. I'd just stepped off the bridge facing a patch of sagebrush ahead. Out from underneath the sagebrush came a white figure that arose and stood just ahead of me. It didn't make a sound but spread its arms outward. I froze for a brief second in complete horror. Adella now seeing the ghost before us in a soft shaky voice spoke my name, SHSH IR IR LEEEEN. I bolted for home. Adella turned to save Deanna and they ran into each other, knocking each other down. I arrived home minutes before they burst through the door. I believe our faces succeeded the whiteness of the ghost. It was a little strange that Dad wasn't home and Mother had a slight smile on her face. Without my company, Mother walked Adella and Deanna home.
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| Velma and Leland Perry (Mother and Dad) |
Over time, I came to better understand Mother and Dad's slight smiles and the twinkle in their eye when they were secretly involved in a successful lesson. I witnessed it one Halloween. Mother and Dad had the custodial responsibility at LaPoint School. Mrs. Thelma Lee (principal) wanted Dad to stay all night at the school to prevent the waxing of windows. It was a daring challenge for the teenagers that had out grown trick or treating to wax windows. Mother and Dad were not in agreement with Mrs.Lee because they needed to be home to greet the neighborhood spooks, and get their own little spooks around trick-or-treating. The wage less request put a major block in our family's Halloween activities every year. Not only that, it took at least two or three people to watch four sides of the building. Raymond and I, now high school age, were summoned to accompany Dad to stand guard. As we left the house, Dad got his shotgun. Sure enough, at about 10:30 or 11:00 p.m. one of us saw them as they came crawling across the huge lawn nearest the creek with their bellies on the ground. In the moonlight they looked like huge glow worms creeping closer and closer to the building. When they were nearly to the windows where we were standing in the unlit school, Dad quietly stepped out of the building and shot up into the air. The giant glow worms stood up and ran for their lives back toward the creek. Some leaped over the fence, and others found the gate opening passing into safety. One boy hit the fence and fell back into the muddy irrigation ditch. He frantically called, "Help, help I've been shot! I'm a dead man! Guys help me!" He continued to call for his buddies to return. Finally, two of his buddies came back to help their fallen comrade. One of them said, "Good h*@! Swain. It isn't blood. Its mud!" They left arm in arm.
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| LaPoint School westside view - Shirleen The Halloweeners came from the eastside. |
These two experiences tell so much about my father's personality. He was calm, patient, and loved life. There was not too much that would get him upset. I did learn one negative button that he had which I only pushed once and that was, "You are NEVER to talk back or sass your mother! She is my sweetheart." A swift hand let me know he meant it.
About February, of my Senior year, the Laurels (mutual girls), had the yearly So Dear to My Heart Night. It was held at the Uintah Stake Center, in Vernal. Sister Bryson (remember my dime experience) was the speaker. Her talk sunk deep into my heart! When the spirit is present it dwells in ones heart unless we ourselves cast it out. I still remember much of her words. She spoke on temple marriage, stressing its importance in our eternal progression, the relationship of the couple, and the eternal family. She commented that we should date more than one guy, because how else would we know if he was the right one. She compared it with buying fruit at the supermarket. You don't buy the first one you pick up, as you want the best fruit for your family. She had us close our eyes, and imagine that that we had been to a ball dressed in our very best formal attire. As she narrated the following scene. "You and your date have just spent a lovely evening together at a dance. You are dressed in your beautiful formal." Pausing, giving us time to get the image fixed in our mind. Easy, I pictured myself in the baby blue dress Mother had made for me and I'd worn for all my high school formal dances. She continued, "Your pale yellow dress is adorned with the beautiful corsage that your date pinned on your dress at the beginning of your special evening." My image then switched to the pale yellow Cinderella dress I'd seen in story books. "Your date is handsome in his formal attire, with the boutonniere you have pinned on him, can you see him? The evening has been all that you've dreamed it might be. It finally is time to dance that last dance. You both walk toward the exit. You discover it has been raining, and there are mud-puddles that can soil your beautiful dress. You need to walk very carefully back to the car in order not to allow that too happen---"
Not experienced in the ways of our Heavenly Father, I did not know I'd just experienced a special spiritual feast narrated by a servant of our Heavenly Father through the power of the Holy Ghost. However, I did KNOW I'd NEVER felt like I felt at that moment. The intense feeling remained with me all the way
home.
I fell to my knees in complete humility and plead for a temple marriage. Homer and I had never discussed temple marriage! Yet, why should I doubt that he wouldn't want a temple marriage? My heart was still afire and troubled as I said my night prayer and crawled into bed. I don't know if I fell asleep or if a vision was opened before me. But I understood at the time I had experienced something extraordinary.
I felt as if I was being carried through the bedroom window, and placed standing facing the LaPoint Hill, where I viewed the following spiritual motion picture. Soldiers appeared one by one coming from the right and worked their way toward the grassy knoll slightly to my left. Each one would fall dead on the battlefield. Their last breath varying from falling in a mud puddle, in the dirt, or fall, rise, and walk a few steps and fall again. A light would flash from behind the knoll (the drawing makes it look as if it is left of me), lighting the area surrounding it. A large clock was above the hills. I watched the hands of the clock as it ticked off the time until the hour hand neared the twelve. My attention focused on one soldier, not in uniform but dressed in a fine suit, walking toward the knoll from the opposite direction. He did not fall but remained standing. Then at last, one came from the east and walked among the dead and dying and walked straight to the knoll and climbed it without difficultly. The pockets of his uniform bulged with all that he'd need to make the climb to the top. Symbolically, those things in his pockets would be the Priesthood, obedience, worthiness, testimony, word of wisdom etc.
I had to live it to understand its full meaning, and I have pondered it many times throughout my life.
I laid in bed marveling at what had been shown me. I knew without a doubt that it was an answer to my much desired request. Fear then gripped me, as a thought entered my mind. Maybe it is telling of a war! Raymond may be drafted! Fear raked me over until I arose and went to my parents room and asked if I could spend the rest of the night with them. I had never in my memory slept with my parents until that night.
My own war was nearer than I thought. It started with a sweet calm before the battle commenced. Homer and I went to see the movie production of Cecil B. DeMille's, "The Ten Commandments". Afterwards, while we were walking to his car, he suddenly said, "I had a dream. In the dream you were wearing a gold dress. Someday I'll buy you that gold dress." Then he started to tell me about a trip he once had taken to a foreign land with his grandmother and a cousin. He told about how poor and hungry the children were, and once we were married we'd go there together. Again, those things were recorded on my soul and remained.
I was not prepared for the battle that began in Uintah Stake Conference. Our stake conferences were held in the Uintah Stake Tabernacle (now the Vernal Temple). My friends and I had seated ourselves in the balcony. A half dozen boys we knew from Vernal sat themselves behind us. The ushers kept watching us with corrective nods and occasionally walked by us throughout the meeting. As conference closed and everyone begin to file slowly out, Wayne Hall grabbed my hand and forced my precious ring off of my finger then pushed through the crowd to get away. I went after him as fast as the crowd would allow. When we got to the steps he said, "here catch". I caught it, only to discover he'd tossed me his class ring instead. He then ran and was lost in the crowd. I could not find him anywhere.
The next weekend, Homer drove me to Vernal to get the ring back. He was upset! We stopped in front of Wayne's house, and Homer started to get out of the car. I was afraid of a fight between a Union Cougar and a Uintah Ute, so I promised I'd get the ring back during the week. Once the ring was finally returned things seemed to even out fine until the following weekend. We went to the dance at Liberty Park as we'd done many times during the last two and half years. After the dance, Homer started to talk about marriage. I don't remember the whole conversation except that he said, "I suppose you want a temple marriage." My reply was, "I will not consider doing it any other way." He then said, "I'm not worthy." I felt as if the whole world stopped on its axis. I began to cry! He knew he wasn't going to get me to discuss it any farther, so he finally said, "Let's think about it this week and then we'll talk about it next weekend." He had no idea, nor did I share with him, of my special spiritual experiences I'd had during the last couple of weeks.
The weekend came and we waited until after the dance to discuss the delicate subject again. Nothing had changed! We decided to not date until one of us came up with a answer, or whatever. I cried myself to sleep. I felt that I was totally innocent. I was not to blame or guilty of anything that was causing the hurt both of us were feeling.
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| I begin to pull away from the familiar before graduation. Class of 1958 |
The battle only became a cold war and more intense. My friends and I went to a Roosevelt Stake dance. Homer was just escorting a girl back to her seat as we entered the cultural hall. I decided I could not stand the pain and turmoil that was pounding inside of me. My girlfriends, understanding my suffering, agreed to drive to Vernal to our own stake dance for the rest of the evening. We did our war dance with the Uintah Utes and ended our hunt in Cougar Territory for the remaining school year.
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| DeLyle |
A friend of mine from Vernal, Johnnie J., asked me if I'd date his friend. I agreed because if Homer was dancing with other girls then it was obvious to me that he had moved on. Emotionally, I wasn't ready to move on but the opportunity was placed before me. Johnnie's friend, DeLyle S. was the first to enter my battlefield and the first soldier to fall. DeLyle and Johnnie were a package, I could soon see DeLyle was as insecure as I felt.
About that same time Kent S. (a friend of Homer's) asked me to go to the Senior Prom and I accepted. On the night of the dance, he called and said his dad had called from Heber and would not get home with the car in time. Somewhat relieved, I removed my formal, said my prayers and went to bed. It always seemed to me that Kent and Homer had drummed up a scheme to keep me from going to the Prom. Especially when the following Christmas, Kent sent me a Christmas card. Was it a guilty conscious or another scheme from Kent and Homer to check up on me? I did not return the kind act. I hated boys! That soldier (Kent) was gone! I would not give him another kind thought!
In my personal revelation Homer had remained standing, I hoped that it meant he would return. I tried with all my might to be strong and have faith.
DeLyle was not where my heart really was anyway. I'd removed Homer's ring, but still hoped. Rejection was painful and I did not plan on allowing it to happen again. After a short few weeks of dating DeLyle, Johnnie warned me that DeLyle enjoyed dropping a girl after she started falling for him, and then have her pine over him. So my alarm was already set.
On March 15, 1958, Nila and I were to perform with the Cougarette drill team at a basketball game's half time. Toward the end of the game, DeLyle, Dale W. (his cousin) and a couple of other buddies came into the gym and found a seat below us somewhere. As soon as the game was over, Nila and I avoided DeLyle and his friends and headed straight home to meet our curfew. It was a pitch black night and Nila was driving. As we were going through Fort Duchesne on Highway 40, we narrowly missed hitting a drunk Native American man walking in the middle of the road. He seemed to be following the yellow line in order to see where he was going. The car's headlights shone on him just long enough for us to see that he was wearing very dark clothing. Nila said she felt that he was so close that he brushed the car as we went by him and she made eye contact with him. We looked back and could see him staggering in the middle of the highway. We shook violently all the way home.
Early the next morning, Johnnie came to my home in LaPoint to let me know that DeLyle had hit and killed an Indian on their way home from Roosevelt the night before. I went with Johnnie to see the car in Roosevelt. The boys were not hurt, but his car showed severe damage and indicated that they were driving over the speed limit. DeLyle spent the rest of the school year and the following summer in emotional recovery. DeLyle became one of the soldiers, as we did not date again that year. Graduation and this accident took us in separate directions. Johnnie and I, remained just good friends, danced the school year to the finish. He was a good dancer.
David P. asked me for a date to attend the activities after graduation. I didn't want to go with him, but I didn't know how to tell him no and so I accepted. He did not attend Union nor was he a graduate so he was sitting in the audience. After I received my diploma and walked into the hall, Johnnie was waiting to congratulate us. He'd received his diploma in Vernal an hour earlier and drove right to Roosevelt. Nila and I left with him and I, knowingly, stood up my date. I shot him dead as dead squarely in the self-esteem. I was not an example of temple ready behavior, for sure!!! I had some things to learn about being kind, trustful and loyal. I'd also just graduated a few days ahead from seminary. I'm sure the heavens were shaking their heads and sighing "we knew she needed some preparation too".
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| Shirleen High School Graduation |
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| Janeal Harrison |
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| A family picture was taken about the time I left for school, September, 1958. Left to right - Vonae, Jeanne (Mary Jean), Raymond, Shirleen, Lanette Middle front - Leland (Dad) and Velma (Mother) |





























